Christ Centered Relationship Coaching

You Were Made for
Love That Lasts.

I help adults who feel stuck, disconnected, and far from God break free from old patterns and build a life and relationships rooted in their Christ-centered identity.

“Every pattern you can’t break is a love story that got interrupted. And the life you keep reaching for is on the other side of it.”

You don't have a relationship problem. You have an identity problem — and we know exactly how to help. Discover who you are to Jesus, heal what's been holding you back, and build relationships rooted in love, not fear.

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"Neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

— Romans 8:39

“Every relationship in your life is a reflection of the one you have with yourself.”

Brent and Raine - Christ Centered Relationship Coaches
10+ Years of Personal Transformation

About Us

Hi, we're Brent and Raine, your Christ Centered Relationship Coaches

We help normal, every day people learn how to create deeper and longer-lasting relationships through coaching techniques that help them understand who they are to Jesus — coupled with easy-to-learn skills around all things emotional intelligence.

We believe most relationship struggles aren't really about the relationship. They're about unresolved pain, shame, and a disconnection from your true identity in Christ. When you know who you are — truly, deeply — everything changes. That's what we help you discover.

  • ✓ Faith-based & trauma-informed coaching
  • ✓ Rooted in emotional intelligence & identity healing
  • ✓ Christ-centered, not behavior modification
  • ✓ Practical tools you can use immediately
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Who We Help

Does Any of This
Sound Like You?

You don't have to stay stuck. This is exactly who we were called to coach.

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Your Heart Feels Shut Down

Relationships start well but never seem to last. You want deep connection but something keeps getting in the way — and you can't quite figure out what it is.

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You Feel Like You Have to Earn Love

You know God loves you in your head, but it doesn't quite reach your heart. Love always feels conditional — tied to your performance, your behavior, or how "together" you appear.

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You're Stuck in the Same Patterns

You keep ending up in the same kinds of relationships, the same arguments, the same emotional reactions — and you're exhausted. You want to change but don't know how.

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Your Connection with God Feels Stale

You love Jesus, but something feels distant. Maybe shame has built a wall between you and God. You want the kind of intimacy with Him that actually changes how you live and love.

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You're a High Achiever Who Feels Empty

From the outside, life looks good. But inside you feel disconnected, burned out, or like you don't know who you are apart from what you do. You crave something real.

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You're Ready to Do the Real Work

You're done with surface-level advice. You want to go deeper — into your identity, your pain, your patterns — and come out the other side genuinely free. That's exactly where we go.

Yes, This Is Me — Let's Talk

Our Approach

We Don't Fix Behavior.
We Heal Identity.

Most coaching stops at the surface. We go to the root — because lasting change only comes from the inside out.

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Identity in Christ

You are not trying to "get into" God's love — you were never out. The stunning truth of the gospel is that the Triune God has included all of humanity in the circle of divine life through Jesus Christ. We help you stop striving and start receiving the identity you already have as a beloved child of God.

"You received the Spirit of adoption: Abba, Father." — Romans 8:15

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Healing the Shame Cycle

Shame says "I am bad." Guilt says "I did something bad." Almost every broken relationship pattern is fueled by toxic shame, not a lack of willpower. We walk you through the same five movements Jesus used with the woman caught in adultery — removing accusation, establishing safety, speaking your true identity, and only then addressing behavior.

"There is therefore now no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus." — Romans 8:1

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The Source Need Framework

Every person has deep God-given needs: Identity, Worth, Acceptance, Belonging, Connection, Security, Significance, and more. When those needs aren't met by God — our ultimate Source — we look for people, achievements, or relationships to fill them. We teach you to recognize the pattern and re-source those needs in the only place that can actually satisfy them.

"Seek first the kingdom of God… and all these things will be added to you." — Matthew 6:33

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Emotional Intelligence Skills

Head knowledge without heart connection doesn't create change. We give you practical, easy-to-learn emotional intelligence tools — how to name what you feel, regulate your nervous system, grieve what needs to be grieved, and communicate in ways that actually bring people closer rather than pushing them away.

"Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life." — Proverbs 13:12

“You can’t love people past the walls you haven’t dealt with.”

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"The goal of coaching is not behavior modification —
it is helping you come home to who you already are in Christ."

— Brent & Raine, Christ Centered Relationship Coaching

Services & Pricing

Two Paths. One Destination.
Coming Home to Yourself.

Every journey starts with a free conversation. From there, choose the path that fits where you are.

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Start With a Free Discovery Session 60 Min — No Pressure

Before anything else, let's talk. This is a free, no-obligation 60-minute session to get clarity on where you are, what's kept you stuck, and whether this is the right fit for you.

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Entry Point

The Foundation Package

1 Month | 6 Sessions | $800

Best for: The client who is ready to start doing the real work and wants a clear, structured entry point.

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    1 Free Discovery Session (60 min)
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    6 One-on-One Zoom Sessions (60 min each)
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    Bi-Weekly Sessions over 1 month
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    Voxer & Email Support between sessions
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    Session Notes & Homework Exercises after each call
$800 1 payment of $800
I’m Ready — Let’s Start
Most Transformative
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Deep Work

The Transformation Package

3 Months | 18 Sessions | $2,400

Best for: The client ready for a full, sustained transformation — not just a starting point, but a complete rebuilding of identity, patterns, and relationships.

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    1 Free Discovery Session (60 min)
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    18 One-on-One Zoom Sessions (60 min each)
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    Bi-Weekly Sessions over 3 months
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    Voxer & Email Support between sessions
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    Session Notes & Homework Exercises after each call
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    Monthly Progress Review — what’s shifting, what’s next
$2,400 2 payments of $1,200
I’m Ready — Let’s Go Deep

🙏 We believe in accessibility. Scholarship spots are available for those who genuinely cannot afford full pricing. Ask us about it on your discovery call — no shame, no judgment.

Testimonials

Real People.
Real Results.

★★★★★

"Working with Brent and Raine was a turning point in my life. I came in broken and left with a completely new understanding of who I am to God — and what I deserve in love. I'm now in the healthiest relationship I've ever had."

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Sarah M. 90-Day Transformation Graduate
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"I was skeptical at first — I thought coaching was just talking about feelings. But this was different. After just 4 sessions, my partner and I have better communication than we've had in 5 years of marriage. The identity work cracked something open in both of us."

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James & Tara L. Couples Coaching Clients
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"I always knew God loved me — but I didn't feel it. Brent and Raine helped me see that shame was running my relationships for years. Once I understood my identity in Christ at a heart level, everything changed. I'm finally free from patterns I'd been stuck in for a decade."

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Alyssa K. 1-on-1 Coaching Client

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Ready to
Come Home to Yourself?

“You’ve been holding it together for everyone else. What if it’s finally time for you?”

Fill out the form and we'll be in touch within 24 hours to schedule your free discovery call. No pressure, no sales tactics — just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.

"You are not trying to get in — you are learning you were never out."

✉ brent.ccrcoaching@gmail.com

✆ (385) 831-3099

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